A gift for you Mothers

This week, in honor of motherhood, I’m linking up with Lil’light of Mine to offer a giveaway and free gift to all you mothers!

I absolutely love being a mom. One of the reasons I love it so much, is because my mother LOVES being a mom. It’s her life’s work. The older I get, the more I realize how unique she is, in that she’s never treated motherhood like a secondary career, or the person she becomes when her work is done. She’s a mother 24/7 and will drop anything to listen or be with her children. She loves, loves, loves, her kids, and really spends her days working and worrying and caring for them. Today actually marks a big milestone for her, in that her baby is going on a church mission for 18 months, which is a really big event for a parent (and child) because they will leave home, and only communicate through email once a week their entire service.  Today is the day that her last child isn’t really a child any more. And I can only imagine how that feels.

Kids grow up. But Mothers stay Mothers. Just think about that for a moment.

Today I want to celebrate Mothers in just a small way, by first noticing what I’ve learned about my mom, and letting you comment with one thing that you’ll go to your grave with that you’ve learned from yours.

I could write a mini series on all that my Mom has taught me, but I won’t get all deep and mushy here. But one thing I’ve learned from her this year, is that she is the kind that makes little people feel important. She’s extremely happy when she is with little children, and she often is seen rolling on the floor and laughing hysterically with toddlers…completely at their level. But she is also gifted in bouying up the grownups that “feel” little, and maybe don’t have the social status that goes along with being recognized or valued. That is her gift. She notices the unnoticed, the small and the little..which are often the biggest people of all. She has the greater perspective that sees beyond and into what “is” and is one of those very “real” people. No fluff…just pure and real.

So, this week, I want to celebrate this amazing role of motherhood. The hardest thing I’ve ever done, and yet the best. Giving your all into this job takes a lot of heart, guts and courage.

I wanted to give something to you Mothers that would be special and meaningful to say thank you for the care you put into your work every day. I know, because 90% of you are moms! And I get to interact with so many of you, and it’s seriously such a treat! I am so lucky that I didn’t choose to work in a field with gruff, grumpy men. Truly! ha:)

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and

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TO ENTER GIVEAWAY:

Answer this question: What is one gift you’ve carried down from your mom into your own mothering or lifestyle?

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1) 1 entry per person

2) Giveaway ends Friday May 5th at Midnight Eastern Standard Time

3) Tell another mother about the discount this week, and spread the love!

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hats off to you all!

xo

sarah

 Comments closed!

 And the Winner is #69 Kim!

 

 

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  • http://Www.sewmanystitcheslater.blogspot.com Lara

    To impart courage, persistence and confidence into my children. My mother had a motto that anything could be achieved if you were brave enough to give it a go and persist until you got it. I love watching the boys give things a go, whether it’s a new slide at the park, or trying to write their name and watching them try and try again until they are happy with their efforts :)

  • Kelly

    My mother wasn’t perfect (just like the rest of us)…she was bold, loving, and crazy independent. Sometimes too independent in my opinion. However, that being said, the one thing I will always remember about my mom is she NEVER spoke negative about anyone. I never remember her talking about people in a gossip-y (is that a word?) kind of way like I remember other mothers doing when I was growing up. No matter what happened, she always tried to stay positive in the light of how she saw others. I like to think I was blessed enough to steal some of that positive forward thinking from her…at least I pray so!

  • Rachel

    My mom taught me the importance of celebrating life’s small victories and making even small accomplishments feel valued and treasured. My two year old already loves for mommy to clap every time he puts something in the trash! It’s so important to make our children feel valued even if their achievements are small so that they’ll have the confidence to go for the big stuff!

  • Kim

    My mother is wonderful. And like your mother, she is still actively ‘mothering’ my 3 siblings and I. I think the most important thing I’ve learned from her is that time is important. We didn’t always have lots of money growing up, but we always had time from my mom. She would let us drink tea from her fancy tea cups rather than let them sit on a shelf. She would spend all afternoon reading us a chapter book. So we felt important, because we had someone who wanted to spend time with us. Even now, she will sit on the phone and listen. And I try to do this with my own children, everyday. Thanks Sarah – I’m off to call my Mama :)

  • Robyn Brown

    Sadly, I didn’t have the kind of mother who gave me things to carry over with my children. I had to learn on my own. I maintain that without the grace of God I would not be the mother I am. I would not enjoy the relationships I have with my children. I would not even know how to love them. Growing up in the house I did it is truly a testament to the power of God in my life that I am the mother I am.

  • Kelli

    My mom always had so much patience with us. She was always there when we needed her. She never told us to “wait just a minute”. I find myself telling my girls to “wait” or “Just a minute” sometimes and I cringe when I do it…I want to work on that. Teach them patience, yes…but always let them know they are the most important thing to me. I am here from Lil Light o mine…love you stuff!! :)

  • Jen H

    I love my mom! Thinking about this makes me wish 8 hours and hundreds of miles didn’t separate us every day so I could head right over and hug her. I think that you can make everything fun. Chores don’t have to be chores when your kids are helping. She used to chase us with the vacuum and fill the sink with tons of bubbles so we could ‘help’ clean up. It may have taken longer to accomplish them but they got finished and it was fun for all of us. And we weren’t off doing our own thing while she was cleaning. Love my mom!

  • Yvonne @Nellie’s Niceties

    What a lovely post and a great tribute to your Mom. My Mum gave her love to her children, and when they arrived to her grand children, totally unconditionally. I found it so reassuring that she would love me for who I was, however flawed I may be. As a Mum I have tried to do the same for my own children. And now that they are both parents themselves I am thrilled to see them giving their own children the same unconditional love. I am blessed to be a link in the chain of love reaching both back and forward through the generations of our family. Happy Mother’s Day to you too. :)

  • Kelly

    The gift my mom passed down to me was baking. I love to bake goodies for and with my kiddos.

  • Randi Marie

    I am currently expecting my first little one, and I think that my relationship with my mom has taught me how love is not easy, but it is so powerful. She and I have had a difficult past, but there is still something that can never be explained about the love between a mother and daughter- it’s just something special.

  • http://junebugworld.blogspot.com Junebug

    The best thing my mom has taught me is to go through life with a smile. She is always smiling, and I strive to do the same!

  • Crissy

    Listening to you talk about my mom made me immediately think of my own mother. You described someone that I have had in my life since the day I was born. I have learned courage, strength, kindness, an unconditional love. I am not yet a mom, but hope I can share these same things with my own children some day. Happy Mother’s Day!!

  • Dana Carter

    Involvement! Always at the table, always in the stands, always on the field…there. She was and I love to be- involved!

  • Erin

    My mother handed down her srong faith in God and her unconditional love for her children. Even though I feel that sometimes my faith is not as strong as hers, I feel it increasing as I see the miracles that are my children and the small miracles in general that life presents us. Faith has gotten me through some tough days with my children, one of which has special needs. I hope my children will also rely on God when the going gets tough and realize how beautiful the world is.

  • Katie

    Just found your artwork and loving it… The Peace, Be Still print is actually currently on my wishlist with hints for Mother’s Day! My mother passed on a love of reading. She read to me tirelessly as a child, made books and library trips readily accessible and pretended not to notice my flashlight beam hidden beneath my covers for that “just one more chapter.” Last night, I had to laugh as my 3 year old, though not yet able to read, made me pause the Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle audiobook in her room at 11:15 when I took her for her nighttime potty break because she was still up listening to her story with wonder.

  • http://www.gracenenutsblog.com Brooke

    My Mom had lots of great nuggets of truth. :)

    Teach your children to respect you with their words, tones, and actions. It will help them all their life.

    When you become an adult you can no longer blame your parents for what is wrong with you. You are responsible for becoming the person you would like to be.

    Your faith in God is shown more in your actions than in your words. (My Mom usually had her Bible by her bed and tried her best to live out the truths in it.)

    You can’t be your child’s “friend” when they are little. You must be your child’s parent. When you teach them to respect, obey, and trust your decisions when they are small, you will be their friend when they are a teen. (this was true with all 4 of us!)

    Spend lots of time talking WITH your children. (not at them) She loved to sit and chat with us after meals and she never liked to go anywhere alone- the more the merrier. Often all four of us would go grocery shopping with her even into our teens. I would go with her even into my early twenties before I was married just because I enjoyed being with her!

  • Angie Matthiessen

    My mother lost her only son (he was 18 and I was 13). From that loss, she was injured and forever changed. The one thing she has never wavered in is her love for me, my sister and her grandkids. While you don’t want to live always thinking about potential losses, she has loved us so much and in that she has shown me the full measure of what God intended. I in turn live with the healthy, God given vision that life is short and we are to love beyond anything else – show them, tell them, no regrets!!

  • http://2momstobe.blogspot.com Allison from 2momstobe.blogspot.com

    My mom loved to sing to us. Even though I don’t have a lovely voice, I sing to my boy.

  • Lauren

    My mom taught (and still teaches) me about generosity. Whatever wealth my parents had/have, it’s usually spent on others. To the church, the annoying dinnertime fundraising phone callers, a friend in need, or a date night for her daughter and son-in-law. :) Thanks for encouraging us to reflect on our moms!

  • Brooke

    Women are strong and we can do anything!

  • http://thelifeofmegananne.blogspot.com megan

    Well, I don’t have any kids yet but my mom gave me many things that I would like to pass down to my future children. We did experiments together {so much fun!} and she sang us to sleep every night. She made sure we ate healthy and didn’t watch TV either. So… might be lacking in the pop culture of my generation a little, but that’s fine by me.

    {p.s. thanks for this prompt! My mom is coming down for a quick visit today and it’s fun to think of the ways she has made me who I am.}

  • http://robo-fam.blogspot.com Meghan

    There’s so much and the more I go on without her, the more I realize I learned from her. But honestly, the first thing that came to mind was the phrase “If I meant to do it, I would have done it harder.” :o )

  • Megan

    There are so many things my mother taught me, but this is my favorite. When I was a shy awkward pre-teen dealing with a bully, my mom said something which has stuck with me, and which I plan to pass along to my children when they’re old enough. It’s a variation on the golden rule. If you are always as nice to people as you want them to be to you, even people who make fun of you, it’s not you who ends up looking silly. That paradigm has persisted in my life, and I’m a better person for her advice.

  • Dell

    My mother taught me to see the positive in difficult situations.

  • amorette

    confidence that i can do anything and get through anything on my own strength, but that i will always have support behind me every step of the way, even if she is not physically there. from giving birth to currently having a 2 year old, i need that reminder every day! thanks mom! you make me a better mom.

  • Megan

    My mom taught me countless valuable lessons, but mostly I think I’ve learned to have faith and hope that no matter what, everything will turn out okay. My mother has always been there doing everything she can to make sure that’s true. She also taught me to follow my passions in life and to have confidence in my ability to achieve great things!

  • http://chocolateonmycranium.blogspot.com/ Montserrat

    Service. My mother is always serving others around her. It is the same thing her mother did too. I think it is the one constant that has been passed down through the women, the mothers. To serve unconditionally. I hope that my daughters are picking that up!

  • Alice S

    Unconditional love and the love of Jesus!

  • http://be-it-ever-so-humble.blogspot.com/ Mrs. Mordecai

    My mom always told us, “Life isn’t fair.” So I often don’t try to make things fair between my two kids—they’re different and have different needs, and doing everything exactly the same for them isn’t always the best choice, no matter what they think.

  • Angie C

    One gift I hope I have carried on from my mom is making my children always feel like they are important :)

  • http://brindyayn.com Brindy Ayn

    What that would be an incredible gift.

  • Malia

    A gift that my mom has passed down and continues to instill into our family is the importance of time with family. Special trips, dinners, reunions of extended family. This is where traditions and memories are passed down and made.

  • http://hopkinshomemade.blogspot.com Melanie H.

    “Forget the bad and tell the good” was something Mom used to tell us when we were little and prone to tattle-telling, and she followed this herself. I never heard her say anything negative about me when she was talking to friends or siblings or grandparents or anybody. She diligently tried to preserve the fragile self-image of each of her 13(!) kids, even when she had to reprimand us and correct things. She was always building us up and helping us see the good in ourselves, even as we struggled through those difficult teenage years. I am now trying to build up my own children the same way. I’m so thankful for my mom’s example. She’s my hero!

  • http://www.warmth.etsy.com Linda Welcome

    My Mom taught me about courage. She told me straight out that my life was going to be a struggle but that I should NEVER GIVE UP.

    My life has been and continues to be a struggle but as long as I draw breath I
    Will NEVER give up.

    As a Mom myself this was the most important thing I wanted to pass on to my children…so far, so good.

  • http://lybertyfindingbeautiful.blogspot.com Julie

    My mom taught me about Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. She taught me how to pray, and to have faith. Best things she ever did for me. :-)

  • http://www.myredwellies.blogspot.co.uk Emma F

    My Mum taught me a lot but one phrase that sticks isn’t a profound saying or deep life lesson. Simply this ‘there is no such thing as too many books’ picture books, reference books, books of poetry, colouring books and dictionaries were the carpet of my childhood and I try to do the same for my children. The more books, the more chance to sit and read with my children. (and I do love a well illustrated children’s book) a good Mum is definately something to treasure.

  • Christy Joy

    My Mom has taught me more then I realize. But right now, what is coming to mind is her tenacity and drive for accomplishing the things she puts her mind to. She has run her own businesses to support the family, taken art classes, written magazine articles, all while mothering her children. She is a superwoman!

  • http://skirtastop.wordpress.com kristin

    My mom taught me the basics of sewing. As an adult, when I decided I wanted to start sewing for my own kids, the craft was familiar. Now it’s a hobby I couldn’t live without – I love it so much! Happy Mother’s Day to you too, Sarah!

    PS – DRAT! I just bought a bunch of your elephant-related art (and the necklace) yesterday! Oh well. :)

  • Hanna

    My mother taught me many things, including how to cook properly. I didn’t realize how valuable that was until I realized how many of my friends couldn’t!

  • http://reidgirlshandmade.blogspot.com Sarah Elizabeth

    To have fun with my kids. My mom was always great at getting the work done fast so we could play together – especially summer days at the lake – those are my most favorite memories… I’ve tried to do the same with my kids

  • Jerilyn

    An enthusiasm for life – my mom is passionate about so many things, and carries that into her mothering and her fierce love for her family.

  • Susan

    My mum taught me to believe in myself and to love and cherish every day with my own children. She finds the laughter in every day moments and reminds me to take life lightly. She has taught me to accept in other people’s differences and never to take pity in another’s situation. I can only strive to be a loving and wonderful mum to my own children, like my mum was to us.

  • Gali

    stopping to smell at the flowers and being thankfull everyday.
    luckily my mom is here also to pass it along.
    :)

  • Kimberly F

    My mom taught me that it’s important to just be silly sometimes, and I’ve definitely passed that on to my kids! (She also taught me to put peanut butter on my pancakes. I’m very grateful for that one.)

  • http://www.wonderlaneart.blogspot.com Missy Anne

    My mom taught me how important family is. No matter what we stuck together through thick and thin, good and bad. And now today my parents and siblings are some of my best friends and supporters!

  • NancyM

    My mom fostered my interests and I’ve done the same with my three children, whether it’s books, art, or video games. What’s important to them is important to me, and my children are my greatest treasures.

  • Suzanne

    I learned from my mom how to be content and choose joy!

  • Heather

    My mom has a knack for playing games & being silly & enjoying life together.

  • http://www.whodoesthesethings.blogspot.com/ Nicole

    My Mom is vigilant when it comes to teaching her children. She and my Dad have also made their relationship a priority, which I’ve tried to carry through to my marriage.

  • Jen

    My mom serves others wholeheartedly. She looks for needs and meets them. I am working on that trait and want to impart it to my own children.

  • http://supercruzes.blogspot.com Lori

    Let’s hear it for the moms. My mom is a great listener. When I was a teenager my curfew was midnight. Mom was always waiting up so we could sit on the couch and talk into the wee hours. My kids are still younger, but I’m trying to follow my mom’s example of dropping everything and listening anytime they want to talk.

  • Kim C.

    Sarah Jane,

    I want to start by saying that Your work is beautiful! Simple and to the point!! I was super excited to see you offered some little boy things as my little man is 8. My mom has taught me a lot of things thru my life but one thing is to LOVE, I am who I am because of her and I can only hope I can be as strong as she is.. and that I continue to pass along that love to my Little Man.

    Once again, love your work, but your paper doll cutouts, brought back some wonderful childhood memories! Life then seemed so much simpler, then what it has become today with all the technology that is put into our children’s lives today. I know most children today (including mine) would rather play with something that started with an i (pod, pad, phone), Xbox, game boys, computers or just to sit in front of the TV. Last year, I started having what I call “Prairie” days with my son (taking us back to Little House on the Prairie, where there is NO technology, No TV and NO power) (but we do get to use the wonderful invention of the bathroom) :) :).. and we do things that require the old fashion play! or we read a book, draw, get outside, play board games, whatever it is that doesn’t require our face glued to a screen or his thumbs getting swollen from playing with handheld games. My family thinks I’m crazy and laughs at me :) but, Oh well!! I want him to see what it is like to actually have a life beyond technology.. and not sitting on the couch..

    Your stories that you put in your drawings have brought me inspiration that my “prairie” days are not off the deep end! LOL.. That those stories you are putting in your artwork are like a breath of fresh air that this world is missing! May God continue to make you shine and make others smile and re-live their childhood memories!!

    Oh and I can see why you adore Wellesley & Winslow so much, they are so Precious!!!
    Sorry for the Novel!!!!
    Love,
    Kim

  • Lynn

    My mom was someone I always looked up to. She always encouraged me to take risks, be brave and think for myself. In high school, when there were so many crazy things going on around me, she was always there to listen and help me through anything–never judging–always supporting. My children are still quite young but I hope they will never be afraid to make a mistake or try something new. If I do half the job my mom did, my kids will be lucky!

  • Josephina

    My mom taught me to love God and put my faith in Him. I have also never heard her complaining about her children (EVER) and I too strive to be like that.

  • Bethany

    My mom did her best to be patient with me (which wasn’t always easy!) and I strive to do that with my children. She also knew how to stop and have some fun with her kids!

  • Kirsten

    My mom strived to feed us food that was good for our bodies. Now as I am trying to feed my children that same way I am amazed at how much work it is to provide good meals for your family. Sometimes I feel like I am in the kitchen all day long. But I know that it is important to teach them to enjoy the foods that their bodies need.

  • http://soccerchic-knits.blogspot.com Sarah

    Lots of hugs and kisses. We were showered with them as children. She also let us know how proud of us she was very often.

  • http://white-bean.blogspot.com Emily Curfew

    my mom is whacky!! and i definitely carry on that trait to my little daughter. :-)

  • Brooke W

    My mom passed on a love for flowers and I feel more serene when there are flowers outside blooming, or a vase full of them on my dining table. I love sharing my love for the beauty in nature with my own children.

    (And your mom is truly everything that you said. She’s completely gorgeous, inside and out!)

  • Tiffany

    My mom always treats her children with respect. She never talked down to us and always listened to what we had to say and valued it. I’m still pretty new at the mom thing, but I’m trying to do that as well.

  • http://isenbergers.blogspot.com Dana

    My mom showed everyone kindness. It didn’t matter what the situation, kindness reigned. I try in my own life to show the same kindness that I witnessed her display growing up.

  • http://Grandmalaurel.blogspot.com Laurel

    My mom showered everyone with unconditional love and never interrupted while listening. Her favorite sayings and advice were “Act, don’t react” and ” Never compare for you will always be looking for those lacking or excelling instead of accepting yourself and all God’s children just as they are.”

  • Liz

    My mom always thought outside the box when solving problems, and so now with my own kids I try to do the same thing when faced with a problem that doesn’t have an obvious solution.

  • Sara

    My mom sang a certain lullaby to me at night and whenever I was scared. It’s my go-to song to sing to my two girls now and they love it just as much as I do.

  • http://aprincesaerica.blogspot.com Erica

    One thing I took from my mom is to be no nonsense! We are “mean moms” if you know what I mean. I love my children, and love to play with them and spend time with them, but when it comes time to discipline, I can put my fut down!

  • Elise

    loving consistency. :) so thankful for that- that inch becomes a mile if we aren’t vigilant! but hugs and praise are needs, too. the combination makes happy, confident, obedient kids. thank you for the opportunity!

  • Emily C.

    My mom helped me develop a love of reading and musical theater. It’s been so fun to share these hobbies with my kids as we check out old favorites, visit storytimes, catch them reading in the bathroom or late at night, sing along everywhere…!

    On a more serious note, she also passed on the importance of doing everything you can to stay home with little ones when they’re young even if it means being extra creative with spending and getting by with less.

  • Caroline

    My Mum taught me so much but the one that I am teaching my 7 year olds at the moment is that everyone is as important/precious/special as each other – we all have limitations (I have a disability, but my children fortunately do not!) and we all have our strengths. We are all different and individual, even if we are identical twins!!

  • Sarah

    My Mom showed us the love of the Lord & taught us to share with others the kindness & love that the Lord would ask us to bestow on one another.

  • http://fabricmutt.blogspot.com/ Heidi

    My mom believed in being herself with us, imperfections and all. I want to do the same for my girls. Thanks for the giveaway!

  • Mary

    My (grand) mother taught me never to settle. She used to always say, “Your grandfather is so excited to wake up every morning and go to work. I want you girls to all have jobs that make you excited to wake up.” Although I’m waitressing at the moment to pay the bills, my real passion is art, and I’m not going to give up on it. Hopefully one day I’ll be able to live off of it like you do.

    My mother taught me to be quick to forgive. People hurt other people, and no one in this world is untouched by that. She instilled in us, though, that it’s not worth letting discouraging people waste any more of our time than they already have, and that the reason they hurt other people is probably because they are hurting on the inside. That’s always helped me, to see people in that way and to forgive them. Lord knows I’ll need forgiveness at times too!

  • http://lifewhileimwaiting.blogspot.com Deborah

    My mom taught me to do the best job I can in what ever I can. That applies to being a mother, worker, my house, hostessing etc. Thanks for the opportunity.

  • Annelies

    Without a doubt courage. My Mom survived the bombing of her city Rotterdam during the war, left her country to seek a better life for her children in the US. She lost my father much to young and reinvented her life to serve her family and others. She was a foster mother for thirteen children and has been an awesome Mom, Oma and now Oma Oma ( great grandmother). My Mom will be 90 years old this Fall. She still lives independently, makes endless amounts of cookies for those she loves and has been an incredible role model for the women of our family.

  • Linda

    MY MOM HAD A WONDERFUL SENSE OF HUMOR FOR IN TROUBLED TIMES SHE’D MAKE IT BETTER WITH SONGS,GAMES AND TREATS FOR US! I WANT TO EMULATE HER IN MY LIFE.
    THANK YOU FOR A NEAT GIVEAWAY!

  • Stephanie

    My mom taught me many things. But the one of the most important, and what i am actively trying to pass down to my children is to have faith in your religion. My mom said to really instill faith in my children while they are young and then keep reinforcing it as they grow. My mom has since passed away from cancer but I am still trying to pass down faith, love of family(as family always came first with mom), to love your siblings no matter how upset, I try to have patience (although I will admit this is something, I am working on), and live each day to the fullest, and to believe in your dreams. Sorry I wrote a book. Thank you for such a lovely thought provoking question.

    Happy mothers day to you!

    Thank you!

  • http://www.fourlittlemunchkins.blogspot.com Four Little Munchkins

    My mother was a master at listening without judging. She appreciated us as we were and accepted where we were at in life, never judged. I find it easier to do that with my kids because of her.

  • Cindy Darnell

    My Mom taught me to rise above difficult situations and don’t let anything hold you back!

  • kris w.

    My mother taught me that the good ones are worth waiting for, and I’m so glad that I did!

  • Lori Tyus

    My mom’s positive attitude and energetic nature are contagious. People always say what a nice mom I have and enjoy being around her:) Hope I do the same!

  • Katheryn

    To cultivate a love for learning and especially for reading good books.

  • Jeannie K

    My mom taught me that being submissive to your husband in a Biblical way does not mean you are weak. In fact, it means the opposite. She also taught me the mantra “This too shall pass.”

  • Katja Magus

    My mom can really get “into” where a child is and be there with them, and help take them the next tiny step they need to take towards whatever goal it is, all without them ever knowing. I hope I can boost mine up, just a little tiny boost, like she does so naturally!

  • Sara

    She has made me to want to reach out of my comfort zone,be independent and BOLD!

    Waiting patiently for the new line;)

  • Leah

    My mother taught me how to love unconditionally. She also passed down her practical attitude and self-confidence – we both think we can do anything we set our minds to!

  • http://songskatesang.typepad.com/ Kate @ Songs Kate Sang

    My mother has given me the gift of encouragement. I love her for it.

  • Traci

    My mom (like most) made lots of mistakes, but one thing I never doubted was that she loved me and my brothers and sister whole-heartedly. That is something I know that I have carried into my own mothering style. My children know that I love them more than anything else in this world. I think everyone needs at least one person that no matter what they say or do, they know that they will always be cherished.

  • Jen Y

    My mom loved no matter what, no matter how she was treated, no matter what those she loved did – she loved them always. She loved with joy. She was very strong.

    Who knows if she passed perseverance to love down to me – I’ve never faced anything as hard as she faced – but I hope that I love as unconditionally as she did.

  • Janineg

    My mom taught me to be kind to everyone! You never know what someone might be going through!

  • Nina

    Although my mom has never taught me how to sew, cook, clean, through all these years, she has been an example of resilience. She has gone through many trials in her life, yet she has stood strong and faced them. I hope my children are learning the same from me.

  • http://www.sewaccomplished.blogspot.com Jill

    I’ve carried the true joy of being with my children. My mother always wanted to be with my brother and I. She truly loves being a mother and spending time with us. I feel that way too, my children are the coolest people I know! I love being with them and my husband. I choose spending time with them over any one else.

  • Jaime

    My Mom says “you spend the first year of a child’s life attaching and the rest of their life letting go.” Wise words. I keep this in mind as I attach (fiercely) to my babies, but more so as they grow into their own.

  • Rachel

    My mom always prayed with us at bedtime and that was a beautiful memory so I’ve continued it with my kids and they won’t go to sleep with out it so I think it will always be a special memory for them too…

  • Dora

    My mother is a cancer survivor, I am very blessed to have her. Through her I have learned about faith, hope and perseverance. The thing I always remember as a child is her love of reading and learning, I am thankful for all of these gifts. God bless all Moms it is a true Blessing to be a Mom, I love being a Mom ;D

  • Karen

    One way that I find I mother like my mother…I don’t fuss too much. If my two year old rolls in the mud, we’ll wash her off after. If she spills a cup of milk, I’ll get a rag. It doesn’t have to be a big deal and I think this approach keeps our household calm. Thanks for the giveaway and Happy Mother’s Day!

  • Anita

    My mother was, and still is, a wonderful listening ear. No matter what I have to say she makes the time to listen. I also try to do this with my children. I saw this saying once and it has stuck with me:

    Listen earnestly to anything your children want to tell you, no matter what. If you don’t listen eagerly to the little stuff when they are little, they won’t tell you the big stuff when they are big, because to them all of it has always been big stuff.
    ~Catherine M. Wallace~

    My mother knew how true this statement was I hope in my busy life as a mom of 3 and a wife and a friend that I will always make the time to listen to the things that are really important to my kids.

  • http://www.thejadeleaf.blogspot.com Jade

    The gift of time. My mum was a stay at home mum, every day she would have an after-school snack waiting for us when we got home.

    It’s only now, that I am a mother, that I truly understand the time she gave to us…

  • Anneka

    I would have to say that my mom was always present. I could always depend on her to be there without question and she was never hurried in helping me deal with the issue. It has made all the difference to me and I’m trying to emulate that quality. Your artwork is just precious! I love it!

  • http://www.tiffanynorris.com Tiffany

    Oh so many things, but a big one is to start reading with my little one early. Those times in mom’s lap or in bed with a book were the best, and I hope to create the same positive associations with my girl!

  • Paula

    Sing to your kids, even if you can’t sing and all you can remember are old commercial jingles. You will always have the best voice and best songs in your kids eyes.

  • http://createwithchristina.blogspot.ca/ Christina Clarke

    One thing my mom taught me and I cling to every day is that dreams can come true, she would say things like “it’s possible for your dreams to come true with a little determination, some hard work and perseverance”. She has always told me that I could do anything I put my mind to.

  • Leslie M.P.

    My mom made dinner every night 7 days a week (and not boxed dinners/frozen dinners). We all ate dinner together every night at the table (not in front of TV) even if it meant waiting on dad if he was running late getting home from work. You take those types of things for granted until you are a mom yourself trying to do these things for your family. Thanks for the giveaway.

  • Alicia

    My mother taught me to always pray, even for the little things in life. What a wonderful blessing that has been in my life!

  • Wylie

    Lovely to read all this comments about mothers! My mother taught me to listen, really listen to my children, even when I was distracted or busy trying to get something done. She also gave me the strong faith I have today, and shared her love of reading with me. Happy mother’s day!

  • Erica

    It is only now that I am a mother that I can begin to understand and truly appreciate all the gifts my momma gave and continues to give to me. One that I love the most is her sense of magic and fantasy she instilled in us as kids… Looking for fairies hiding in the grass, always having your 3 wishes ready in case you run into a genie… She really knew how to make everything fun!

  • Catherine

    I love reading all these stories, too! So inspiring! My mom and I are about as different as two people could be, but I love her so much. She sewed all my clothes when I was little, as well as clothes for my dollies. I don’t sew Everything my kids wear, but I try to make them each something special each season–love and prayers in every stitch. Thanks!

  • Annie

    My Mom taught me to do things really good. Not half-baked or so-so. It had to be the best we could do, whether it was homework, making the bed right, or mopping the floor on our hands and knees, we did it really good! I have passed this on to not only my kids, but my husband too. ;) He just LOVES mopping the floor. (hee hee)
    Thanks, Sarah Jane! Your artwork is just perfect for our child-filled home.

  • Candice

    lots and lots of reading story books- our favorite times of the day! It means so much and we have so much fun!!

  • Ellen M.

    My Mom made sure to treat all three of us equally (no favorites), with lots of attention, love and respect. Thanks for the chance to win!

  • Kerstin

    Are we allowed to enter with a story about our grandmother? Well, I am…
    My grandmother has taught me so much. She has taught me about family traditions and the importance of passing them down through the generations. Many of the things I do with my children (daily and at special times as well) are things that she did with me. She has taught me the importance of expressing my creativity and has always encouraged it (even if it wasn’t particularly pretty…). She taught me to pay attention to details and the small things in life. She has always given me her ALL, even when it has been hard for her… These are all things I try to share with my 3 little ones, even if they aren’t quite old enough to understand. It feels like traditions are quickly disappearing in our fast paced society and I strive to keep them alive in my family, because that is what keeps families together and strong… she also taught me the importance of sitting down every night as a family at the dinner table… even if we are eating at 8 or 8:30 pm… and WE DO, every night!

  • Jennifer B

    My mom and I don’t always see eye to eye but I know she loves us with all of her heart! One of the best gifts my mom has given me is the gift of sewing. I have made many wonderful gifts and quilts as a result. When we were little, she made all of our clothes. I wish we would have kept them!
    Thanks Sarah! Your work is beautiful!

  • Beth

    My mother never once criticized my body. She was a runner, a healthy eater and a woman who was content with her own body. She never encouraged me to wear make up, never suggested I fix my hair differently… But she told me often how beautiful she thought I was. She communicated to me, without ever saying it explicitly, that I was beautiful just as I was; that I needed no embellishments. I hope that I can give my own daughter that same gift. It allowed me to grow up with self-confidence, contentment and a healthy self-image that I retain to this day.

    • CarolAnn

      What a beautiful gift for her to have given!

  • CarolAnn

    My mom always looks for the silver lining. That is one trait that is usually for the best! I try to keep that in mind with my own family and I hope that my children try to ‘think positive’ as well.

  • http://Www.teasready.Wordpress.com Theresa

    My mother is always there for us, even though I’m 400 miles from her. We talk often about anything and she bends over backward for her grandchildren. When my first child was born premature (and lived, thank God) and then when my second was stillborn, she dropped everything to be by our side. Then she did all she could to make our postpartum days comfortable during these times and the five (normal, full term) subsequent births. Some day I hope to be such a comfort and a help to my daughters/daughters-in-law.

  • lynn

    her love of gardening. i started with my son in a sling as a babe and he’s now 4 and has helped seed, plant, harvest, weed every year. this year as we sat down to seed 200 plants inside-he did most of the work-he talks to them daily and has an appreciation of where his food comes from.

  • Kristina

    It’s a line she borrowed from JM Barrie but it’s perfect: Always try to be a little kinder than necessary.

  • http://www.lifeoncedarridge.blogspot.com Alyssa

    perseverance. you have to push on, even when things are tough. Don’t give up! My mom was always a hard worker. She was always there for us when we needed her. She never threw in the towel.

  • http://www.joyinthechaos.wordpress.com kathleen

    My Mother gave me the gift of apologizing when she was wrong, of being human in front of me, of celebrating the everyday, of spontaneity. Of grabbing me out of school to enjoy ice cream and a surprise movie matinee! Of knowing that I was created in God’s image and reminding me everyday, every single day that God’s purposes for me could not be thwarted. She’s still very busy loving me…and the sound of her voice at the other end of the is the greatest balm I will ever receive. p.s. she and I both love your work!

  • http://www.tjanderica.blogspot.com Erica England

    I love this!! My heart somewhat fluttered when i read, “kids grow up. mothers stay mothers!” what a job!! how blessed are we!
    my cute mom passed on a lot of her wonderful traits to me and my sisters. i would say the one thing i am glad i have of hers is her amazing organization skills. she is a rockstar organization. she is always five minutes early, everything prepared days in advance and her house is immaculate. i’m glad i (somewhat) have some of those traits! … i’m still a work in progress!!!

  • LS

    Well, I can sew really well and it’s all because of my mother! We didn’t have much money, but she would always buy me all the fabric I wanted, and give me unlimited instruction. It’s a skill I will use forever. I still sew something every day, and get endless pleasure from it :D

  • http://www.laurielou.etsy.com lauren

    My Mom was and only child to older parents and is one of the hardest working people I know. She has always been what I call stoic and I learned from her not whine when it gets hard but to persevere no matter what. There’s always another way. She always encouraged us to persue our talents from doctoring,to finance and investments and myself in the area of the arts. Marriage and mothering is hard work but worth every struggle and I have taken her attitude of stoicism and added in more hands on love that she struggled to share with us being a corporate working Mom raised by reserved parents and I hope that that will continue to grow in my 4 children when they too become parents! Happy Mother’s Day!

  • Galit

    My Mom taught me to always give everybody as I would like to get for myself.

  • http://jeannegwin.blogspot.com Jeanne from Missouri

    I learned something from my mother that she “did not do”. She was always so nervous and impatient with the grandkids and I swore I would not be a nervous complaining mom (I sort of achieved that goal but not completely) but when my grandkids came, it was put into force. I drop everything for my grandkids, they are mine to love and cherish and I want them to remember me as the sweet, loving, patient, fun, gramma who made them quilts.

  • Eleanor

    My mother taught us to help others “whenever, wherever, however” we could, and I am trying to pass that on to my children. I think its one of the best legacies they (and I) could have.

  • Mindy t

    My mOther taught me the importance of family meals

  • Addie

    Your story of motherhood warms my heart! My mom is a tremendous caregiver and she taught me how to care for babies and children from childhood so even without siblings I have this knowledge that has brought me work in child care and a tremendous respect for baby and childhood. This has fostered my love for children all my life. My mom knows how to be where very young children are at in any situation and is very patient with them. I love being a favorite among little ones I care for but most of all I look forward to having my own children and passing on this legacy.

  • cris c

    One thing I learned from my mother is to help others who are in need, whatever that need may be. It’s the reason I always purchase Christmas gifts for charities during the holidays. It reminds me of her.

  • KimL

    My mom taught me so much…to love Jesus, to sing, to laugh, to be joyful always, to put others first, to bake, and the list goes on. She died 5 years ago. I see her in my sons, I think of her every day, and I love her very much.

  • wordygirl

    My mom always integrated our pets into our family life, and never really thought anything of it. We fed the dogs breakfast before we ate ours, we got exercise when we took them for walks, we watched tv with them sitting next to us. I don’t think she thought it was a big deal, although it was quite different from her farm life childhood, where animals were outside only and many wound up on the dinner table. Fast forward to my life, in which I’ve been unable to have children. Our dogs and cats make our life richer and happier and I think my mom helped set that pattern.

  • http://allthisforthem.blogspot.com mary jo

    I guess where I can most see my parenting style reflected in my mom’s would be my do-anything-for-them type of love that many times sacrifices my own needs/wants. I can’t help it; it’s the way I want to love them, because I felt totally loved growing up, knowing I was the most important thing to my mom. I want my kids to know that too, so I guess that’s just what makes me who I am as a mom. Drop anything sort of mom, for the kids. (Don’t worry, I do get me-time in there too, just not when they’re around!)

  • mary jo

    My mom taught me to give it all I have, and that’s what I try to do with my kids.

  • http://www.djadopt.com Jennifer

    My mother passed on a passion for cooking, baking, sewing, gardening, and serving others. I didn’t realize what a blessing her talents were in my life until I grew up and moved away from home. Since then I have desperately tried to glean all I can from her, so when I am blessed with a family they can enjoy the family “bread drawer (with a variety of breads), the tailored prom dress or heartfelt quilt, the warm home cooked meal at the end of a long day, fresh carrots and flowers on the dinner table, the the joy that comes from spending time caring for someone in such a way that it puts a smile on their face and a lump in their throat. My mom, she is my hero. I hope to be just like her some day!

  • Sheri

    I think the one thing that stands out the most is do your best in all that you do. My mom is such a strong woman and I am so thankful for her. This one is going to be a tough one. The day after mothers day, we meet with her doctor because her chemo isn’t working. So, I really hope to make this mothers day special for her.

  • Shannon W

    One thing my mom passed along to me that I am passing along to my children is her love for music. My mom used to always sing, in fact she used to wake me up in the mornings by singing Rise and Shine (I must say I didn’t always appreciate that when I was a teenager!). Now I love to fill my home with music. My husband and I and our three children love to dance and sing. We may not be very good, but it’s so much fun!

  • Julie Reese

    My mother had and showed so much respect for her own mother that infuenced me in my life to do the same in turn for her. She aslo taught me patience and kindness through the way she treated me so I in turn show it to my own children. I work full time and thank goodness I have my mother near, she is my children’s nanny and is able to teach them as well. Thank goodness for my mother, I would be lost without her!

  • Theresa N

    To never criticize.

  • Jenny Martin

    My mom always made sure we had extra special birthdays–so I do too–I might go overboard–but they will always be a special memory!

  • Cass M

    Always bake from scratch.
    That a few wooden toys from Germany are much better than lots of crap plastic toys from China.
    Thanks to genetics, that roll around our tummies will never quite go away!!
    Take time for the details. That’s what I remember the most as a child and love to do now as a parent (stockings, party planning ….)

  • http://tabitha.synthetiklabs.com Tabitha

    One of the things that I have carried on is to make a home-cooked meal almost every night. I know there are many families that do this, but I thought growing up that everyone had a meal around the table that was cooked by their mother. I really think it makes a difference when you eat dinner as a family and she taught me that. Unfortunately, I’ve brought a little bit of her impatience to my parenting as well, but I think all the good she gave me outweighs that! ;)

  • Cheryl Burchett

    My mom taught me how to creatively make do. My fad was a pastor and for much of my childhood my mom didn’t work outside the home. I know money was tight, but mom knew how to sew and dad knew how to fix stuff and they made do, but in a way that we never did without. Today, I am so proud when I can make something for a fraction of the cost! It really helps with my growing family and teacher’s salary, but it also reminds me of all my mother taught me!

  • Tim

    My mother taught me about fairness and how to be a good listener. I think my wife would agree that I did pretty well with those lessons!

  • Sheila

    My mothers ingenuity and wisdom. She taught me to make the best decision I can with the information I have at hand and when and if that information changes, it doesnt mean my decision was wrong, it just means I may need to change direction. I am one of the youngest in a family of Eleven and My moms heart was never to full to love another. We had foster children, and we learned that one can always stretch a meal to include anyone at the door, no one is a stranger and to remember always that Love surpasses the evils of the world

  • NancyISanchez

    Ah ha! Such fun this is, I love reading the responses… Mom, what a gal, just be yourself, say you’re sorry, listen with your heart, forgive and forget, and get up in the morning with a plan of attack… or at least give it your best!

    Thanks mom! Your grandkids thank you too!!

    Oh and “carry on soldier!”

  • Jenn A

    My mom taught me the joy of giving thoughtful gifts to people – any time (not just special occasions). She has a very generous and kind heart.

  • Christy B

    My mom taught me and my brother to see the humor in every situation. Laughing together is how my brother and I get through life’s most difficult situations – and we owe that to our mom.

  • http://lyssandcam.blogspot.com Lyss

    Love this that you girls are doing…so neat! Thanks for doing this, how great!
    My mom and I were actually talking about this the other day…the older I get the more I become like her, especially since becoming a mother! I think the biggest thing is being protective and a doing fun things together! But I am sure more will unfold!
    Thanks again,
    Lyss

  • Emory

    My mother has always given me unconditional love and support. As a new mother, I go to her every day for advice. My son is so lucky to have her as a Grandma.

  • http://sweetcarolinestudio.com Celeste Knight

    My mother taught me that mothers always put their children first because that is what she always did for me and my siblings.

  • Chiska

    My Mom taught us to love books. I still love them and love sharing them with my children. There’s not a day that goes by that we don’t read together. If we’re all upset it’s one thing usually will calm everyone down.

  • Jennifer

    I am mostly like my mom, with a little of my dad in me. There was nothing but unconditional love and she gave me a great work ethic, which I am trying to impart to my own children. Thanks for the giveaway.

  • http://pickupsomecreativity.blogspot.com Chris

    I think one of the greatest gifts my mom gave me was the belief that I can try anything…and if I believe I can I will most likely succeed. That creativity is infused in my bones, and it’s something I try to instill in my children, too.

  • http://www.randomrandallnews.wordpress.com Katie

    My mom taught me to look at all/listen too the many different sides of the story before making my decision. I always try and put myself in the other persons shoes before making a decision. I hope to teach my daughter to do the same thing

  • Raquel

    My mom always read to us and sung to us growing up. I now sing these same songs to my children and cuddle up and read them some of the same books that were read to me. It’s the little things in life that are the greatest.

  • Sarah

    My Mom taught me to make tortillas, how to sew, that back scratches at bedtime can be better than a hug when you are worn-out, and that you can usually try again when you don’t get it right the first time.

  • Sarah

    My mom gave me the gift of time and love. As yours did, her full-time job was being the best mama that she could be – being there for every recital, school field trip or dance competition. She has only gotten better with age, and has become a great grandma to my little girl.

  • Sarah B.

    My mother made us her full-time job, which I appreciate SO much and try to emulate as much as we’re able. What I’ve absolutely learned from her, though, was to never be too busy to sit and rock a kiddo who needs it. I tried to do this with my students when I taught little people, and now I do it for my own girls. There’s just no substitute for that, and it usually puts everyone involved in a more positive frame of mind. Now I understand why she did it. :)

  • http://Thepaperchick.blogspot.com Ashley

    The gift of song. We don’t sing well but our days are sprinkled with song. I remember the sound of my grandmother’s voice raised in song, my mother’s and now my own joined by the voices of my three children.

    Thanks for the chance to win.

  • http://www.thedoodlegirl.com thedoodlegirl

    My mom taught me not to be afraid of hard work. She always works so hard with such a cheerful heart. I’m trying to be like her! She also taught me to make homemade bread. I feel like such a hero when I make it for my family. :)

  • http://mary.emmens.co.uk/ Mary

    Baking and jam making have got to be the best things she taught me! I certainly learnt a lot from her but most importantly I’m making my own way as a mum. thanks for the awesome giveaway.

  • http://www.no-longer.com Melissa B.

    My mom taught me how to sew. Even though it wasn’t easy and we did a lot of bickering, it is a skill I am so happy to share with my own daughter now.

  • Cathy

    My mom taught me to put family first, and to find contentment in togetherness rather than material goods. She has always played multiple life roles successfully; wife, daughter, neighbor, bank teller, school volunteer, Girl Scout leader, bake sale coordinator, you name it. Of course in my opinion the one she did best was to be my Mom!

  • http://littleweaverwomen.blogspot.com Caitlin

    One thing I’ve taken from my mom is the value of living a simple, not-too-busy life. It’s easy to overload on activities for our kiddos, and things to keep us busy in the seemingly monotonous days when our children our young. But there’s joy to be found in spending lots of time at home, playing, reading, and doing things together, and those are the kind of days we’ll want to relive once they’re grown.

  • nancy

    To enjoy life and to look for the good in every situation.

  • Wendy

    My mom taught me many things but I guess my favorites would be the love of reading, sewing and gardening. More important she{and my dad}taught me to have faith in God and let Him direct my life. My 2 brothers and 4 sisters had a somewhat sheltered life but we had a great childhood and still get togather as often as possible.

  • JennyG

    One of the things I loved about my mom was how joyful she was about being a mom. I’m not sure it was always completely truthful, but she always seemed twice as bummed as us kids when our school breaks were over. I never heard her lament about the burdens and boredoms of being a mom. She made it seem like the best job ever.
    Hopefully, my kids see the same attitude from me. Sometimes it’s easy to find stuff to complain about in the job of raising kids, but then I remember how great it felt to believe my mom loved to be around us all the time.

  • http://www.lifeverse.etsy.com julie chen

    just one thing i have gleaned from my mom is to sacrifice my own desires for the sake of my kids sometimes; and to be there for them.

  • Mindy

    My mom taught me to go above and beyond for my kids that way that she did for me :)

  • Hilla

    My mom taught me that kids, no matter how small have their own opinion and take on things and the effect our decisions makes on them matters….they should be consulted and if there are “grown up” reasons for something it should be explained. I love the fact that I was always treated with respect and do the same for my daughter….

  • http://loveofinteriors.blogspot.com brittany

    Sarah! what a great post- it sounded like u were describing my mom! (sherrie…i think they are so similar!) i can’t’ believe the baby sister is going on a mission! how exciting! love what you do- brittany (bills) simmons

  • My Barefoot Angel

    You are truly blessed to have such a wonderful mom. Unfortunately I can’t say the same for me. There is no gift that I can carry down from my mom into my own mothering. Just one lesson, to do the opposite of what my mom did…hugs and kisses, saying “I love you”, reading, cooking and feeding with joy, playing and enjoying every blessed moments with my kids!

  • Kara

    My mom taught me to always take time to play and laugh. She was never too busy to sit on the floor and pretend with me or play a game. It is something i try to do with my own children now and i’m so grateful to have learned not to miss these precious moments!

  • http://microbesofunusualsizes.blogspot.com bec

    My mother is very, very patient. I try to be as patient with my children!

  • Jenna D

    The love of being creative, whether it’s in arts & craft time or entertaining, adding just a little touch of unique love makes for a wonderful time!

  • CarrieO

    Laughing instead of getting mad. I’m still working on this one, but her ability to stay positive and see the funny/lighter side of things really makes a difference.

  • http://www.sewingdork.blogspot.ca the sewing dork

    My mother was the first in the family to break the cycle of poverty; she went back to high school, then to college as an adult, then finally to law school. I tried to carry on the tradition by putting my own education before motherhood and hope that my daugthers are able to do the same.

  • http://none patti krueger

    My mother taught me to live my faith not just know it or believe it. She is a Godly woman of faith.

  • Danielle Zerlang

    I learned many amazing and essential things from my mom. She was an amazing mom, that unfortunately, has lost her mental capacity (through mental illness) to be the grandmother that I had always imagined. During this time I am reminded of her constant strength, loyalty, and unconditional love that she had for all. But, most of all I remember her words to me. She told me that happiness is a choice in life, simple as that. You can either choose to be happy or choose to be miserable. And in her opinion, happy people lead a more fulfilling life. I also will always, remember her telling me that 99% of people in this world are good people and not to forget it. I will always remember my mom for her genuine whole hearted love for people and life.

  • http://shopbonnenouvelle.blogspot.com Hannah {Bonne Nouvelle}

    Oh, my word! I love your mom! What a beautiful post. And gorgeous photos! She looks genuinely happy.
    I love that my mom passed down, through all Knells, from Grandma Jewell, a gift of creativity :)